To the future girlfriend of my son
Future girlfriend of my son! You are attracted to someone very special to me. Someone who when he came in to my life changed me forever. He is a special man to me and always will be. I want you to know that I have done my best to raise him as a well rounded and completely accepting person. He is kind, considerate, has a big heart and a healthy respect for everyone regardless of their race or gender. Know now he will always treat you with respect.
I have done my best to make sure he knows it’s good to love, to laugh, to cry, to feel sad, to feel pain, to feel happy. I am sure when he loves he will wear his heart on his shoulder completely exposed and wanting to know where your relationship will go? This I cannot help him with except to be there for him.
As you both try to understand being boyfriend/girlfriend mistakes will be made and that’s a guarantee! Please do not make a public spectacle of the mistakes either of you no matter how angry you are at the time. I do know my son and he will listen to what you have to say, he will hear what you have to say and he will understand what you have to say and I hope you can do the same with him.
I do have some expectations of you as his girlfriend and they are not much to ask. For the time you are with him be it a week or a lifetime treat him with respect, do not berate him as he will not berate you, do not hit him as he will not hit you, do not take his feelings for granted as he will not take yours for granted, you do not need to make him jealous of you as he will have those feelings irregardless and most of all love him for the time you are with him.
If he chooses to bring you home, I know you must be very special to him and you will always be welcome while together.